Tyler Update: Saturday, March 27

GREAT NEWS! we finally have received some conclusive answers as to what's going on with our big guy.

Short version, he may come home today with scheduled follow-ups and home treatment for the rash.

Long version: On Wednesday we took Ty to our pediatrician because of a swollen gland on the left side of his neck. He was given a shot of antibiotics thinking the swollen gland was pointing to toncillitis. He took the shot fine with no immediate reaction.

The next morning he woke up with a rash all over his body. Thinking this was an allergic reaction we consulted our DRs and gave him Benadryl. Later on Thursday, we took him to his scheduled follow-up appointment at which time our pediatricians consulted and determined the rash was not a reaction and sent us to the ER.

One of the possible diagnoses in the ER was Stevens Johnson Syndrome (SJS). This is a rare allergic reaction to medicine or other stimulant. Our silent prayers have been for this not to be the case. As of this morning the DRs have conferred and have ruled out SJS since the rash has not progressed in that manner.

The diagnosis at this time is some sort of viral infection. Basically, this rash is going to have to run it's course.

As for the swollen gland, it has gone down. We never had to have the CT scan on this.

We don't have a clear cause for all this but we are at peace knowing his life and health are in God's hands. Your prayers have sustained us as evident in the fact that the hospital staff have told us that they are impressed with our perseverance. God receives the glory.

An ongoing prayer request is for Ty's comfort through the rash as it is still itchy and sore.

Thank you for your prayers and words of support and encouragement. We have felt embraced by the fellowship of believers that is the Church. May you be blessed this day as God has used you to bless us.

- Bryan & Amy

Tribute to Veterans and their Fight for Freedom

On this Veteran's Day, November 11, 2009, I want share an excerpt from the writings of Thomas Jefferson that has inspired me over the years. This is taken from "Declaration of Causes and Necessity of Taking up Arms," written on July 6, 1775. I first encountered this reading in seminary when our choir performed "The Testament of Freedom." by Randall Thompson who set these words to music.  Emphasis has been added to the passages that move me the most.

We have counted the cost of this contest, and find nothing so dreadful as voluntary slavery.  Honor, justice, and humanity forbid us tamely to surrender that freedom which we received from our gallant ancestors, and which our innocent posterity have a right to receive from us.  We cannot endure the infamy and guilt of resigning succeeding generations to that wretchedness which inevitably awaits them if we basely entail hereditary bondage upon them.

Our cause is just. Our union is perfect. Our internal resources are great . . . We gratefully acknowledge, as signal instances of the Divine favor towards us, that His Providence would not permit us to be called into this severe controversy until we were grown up to our present strength, had been previously exercised in warlike operation, and possessed of the means of defending ourselves.  With hearts fortified with these animating reflections, we most solemnly, before God and the world, declare that, exerting the utmost energy of those powers which our beneficent Creator hath graciously bestowed upon us, the arms we have been compelled by our enemies to assume we will, in defiance of every hazard, with unabating firmness and perseverance, employ for the preservation of our liberties; being with one mind resolved to die freemen rather than to live slaves.

Having very dear friends currently in harms way for the sake of what is often taken for granted, I offer this reading as inspiration and acknowledgment of my deep gratitude of the sacrifices made by the men, women, and families of our armed forces.

- BP

Expert Christians?

I read this today on one of my favorite blogs:

A study orchestrated by K. Anders Ericsson who looked at musical prodigies found the common denominator for mastery and success: 10,000 hours of practice. “The emerging picture from such studies,” says neurologist Daniel Levitin, “is that ten thousand hours of practice is required to achieve the level of mastery associated with being a world class expert—in anything.” (read the full post here)

I couldn't finished reading the post because I couldn't get this thought out of my head - "Who among us has spent 10,000 hours in prayer, meditation, and Bible study?"

Whoa.

The longer I live, the more I learn, the more I realize I have merely scratched the surface.

Father, may we make You our number one priority in order to attain the mind of Christ and to continue Your redemptive acts so that one day You might say, "well done."

Thoughts? Let's dialogue in the comments below.

- BP

A Time for Harvest . . .

. . . should lead us to a time of giving thanks. Take a moment right now, stop what you're doing and consider the harvest of wealth, knowledge, and love you've received over the last year. We are so blessed.

A few of us were just speaking with Pastor Stan in the Church Office about his trip to Nigeria over the last couple of weeks.  He was sharing how twenty American dollars given to a village pastor was almost like handing him an unlimited bank account.  We can blow $20 bucks at Chic-fil-A in less than five minutes!

According an article on globalissues.org, "at least 80% of humanity lives on less than $10 a day."  This is reality.  That's about three fancy coffee drinks at Starbucks.

As people benefiting from a wealthy society here in America, what are we to do with these issues?  Do we give it all away and live in poverty ourselves? For some, that has been the answer.  Yet, there is a balance, I believe, in that we receive much in order for God to teach us how to share.

In Luke 12:48, Jesus teaches that to whom much is given, much is expected.  In this season of harvest, it is fitting that we take stock of all we have received, be it material or not, and make sure that we are putting it all to good use for the glory of God.  Maybe there's something in our lives that is excess.  This could be the one thing that your brother or sister next door could use to make their life better.

As we take stock, let's give thanks to God.  It is a rare opportunity in our world that so many can participate in the joy of sharing out of an abundance.  You can offer thanks to God with your lips, but He truly sees your gratitude as you give.

The early church demonstrated their gratitude of God's blessings by selling their possessions and giving to those who were in need (Acts 2:45). The question my family and I will be answering over the next few days is this:

Out of God's great abundance in our lives, what can we give to another in order to put action to our faith?

Will you join me in answering this question with your family? How have you built this spirit of thankful sharing into your family life?  Please share below.

 

- BP 

That Which is Currently Challenging and Shaping Me

Over the last few days I've taken a Sabbatical/Study Leave of sorts for the purpose of prayer, personal worship with God in a secluded spot, and life change/growth.  I spent part of this time at the BCMD's Shepherd's Rest at Skycroft.  The ground on that mountain is hallowed.  I have seen God work in many lives there and I have experienced sacramental moments in conversation, prayer, and worship. Last week proved to be one of those mysterious, sacramental times with the Lord.

A Challenging Book for a Thirsty Soul

I set out in a car loaded down with new books and a loose plan for what I was going to study.  God quickly changed the course. I was first challenged by Francis Chan's new book, "Crazy Love."  It is very conversational, just like Chan's stage presence.  Two questions that are challenging me from this book are:

  • Am I allowing my high view of God to affect my daily life, in every word, in every decision? 
  • Do others witness my high view of the Creator in my daily living?
Chan also leads the reader to worship.  The first section of the book is a great reminder of God's greatness and our insignificance in the scheme of eternity and the universe.  Yet, in spite of that reality, God loves us and desires to communion with us. Leading me to read and mediate on Psalm 19 on page 28, I was inspired with a new song as I witnessed God's majesty in the peak colors of the surrounding hard woods on the mountain.  I hope to soon share this song with my congregation.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who feels they've hit a wall in their spiritual journey.  Chan asks some tough questions and makes some bold statements and then challenges the reader to test them by going to the scriptures themselves.  It is a great book to read and a great book to share.

Writing a Life Plan

Recently, I was privileged to be introduced to Michael Hyatt, CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishing.  I had no idea at the time what an impact this introduction would make on my life.  I've probably only spoken with Michael face to face for a total of eight minutes, but in exploring and digesting his blog, I feel as though he's been coaching and mentoring me from a distance.

Michael is a very successful man in that he is a great husband, father, follower of Christ, and respectfully holds a job of great influence.  He has graciously open sourced his keys to success in life through his blog as he writes about the things that keep him focused.  Three of his archived posts are really challenging me right now:
After my family joined me for the weekend at Shepherds Rest, I returned home on Monday and Tuesday, found myself a corner at the local library and began working through these posts to create my own Life Plan.  This isn't the type of plan where you say, "in five years, I will ______." It's a tool for self awareness, prioritizing your life's relationships, and improving on your weaknesses.  I'm still working on this and hope to have it complete in a day or so.  It's been very eye-opening to say the least.  I highly recommend this systematic approach to working on self awareness.

So what is challenging and shaping you these days?

- BP

Leonard Sweet's Theology of Twitter

Twitter Theology:  5 Ways Twitter Has Changed My Life and helped me be a better Disciple of Jesus

By Leonard Sweet

 

 

I have been on twitter for less than a year, but it has already changed my life.

  Twitter is less than two years old, with fewer than fifty employees and, as far as anyone can tell, no business plan. It has grown so fast that the site is rickety and unreliable, with the “fail whale” icon showing up all too frequently (a sign that the volume of tweets has overwhelmed the site’s ability to keep up). When you’re using twitter you get same feeling our ancestors must have when they turned the crank of the model-T.

  But I can’t imagine life without twitter. A case can be made for twitter on the basis of twitter’s role in the communications revolution (this would lead me to defend tweets during worship), or in political revolutions taking place around the world (Iran, for example). But I want to make a more personal case: Twitter makes me a better Jesus disciple, partly because twitter is my laboratory for future ministry. Here’s why.

  1) Followership

  Twitter only knows two categories: who are you following, and who are your followers. Twitter’s categorical imperative is one of followership, not leadership.

  Jesus’ category is “leader.” My fundamental category is “follower.” Even when Jesus calls me up to the front of the line, I still lead “from behind.” For the last fifty years the church has made a fetish of a word that is hard to find even once in the New Testament (“leader”) and has ignored a word that is found hundreds of times (“mathetes” or “follower,” “disciple”). Twitter is a daily reminder that everything doesn’t rise and fall on leadership but on followership—-who am I following, and who is following me. The name “Christian” (“little Christ”) was given to believers in Antioch (Acts 11:26) because people saw in them the Christ they followed.

  Paul said “follow me as I follow Christ.” In twitter’s ethic of followership, I am constantly reframing reality in ways that are more Jesus—more grace-full, more forgiving, more loving, more humorous—-and helping my “followers” to better follow Christ. I am constantly on the prowl for things that could encourage, enrich, inspire. I want my tweeps either to smile after reading one of my tweets, or to shake their head and sing, “What a Tweep We Have in Jesus.” In my ongoing battle with self-transcendence over self-absorption, twitter has helped me become more others-focused.

  For the One who taught us to be “in” the world but not “of” the world (or “out of it” either), the question is not “Would Jesus Tweet?” but “What Would Jesus Tweet?” The twitter question of “What are you doing?” has been replaced in my mind with “What is God doing?” and “Where do I see Jesus?” and “What am I paying attention to?”

     With a new list of followers every day, and an unlimited number of potential followers, I am also reminded daily that the most important people in my life I haven’t met yet.

  2) Sound Bytes that Bite

  If you can’t say it in everyday words, you probably don’t understand it yourself. And if you can’t say it in less than 140 characters, you can’t say it in a way that can connect with a Google world. The first task of a missionary is to learn the language. In a Google world there is no logos without logo.

  In spite of all the warnings about trading in caricature and cliche, most of history’s greatest books and thinkers have distilled their thoughts into a 140 character tweet. In fact, the single killer sentence is what has changed the world.

  No one was better at tweets than Jesus. Jesus was a master at sound bytes that bite with terseness and immediacy. In fact, he was always twittering the gospel in pithy, memorable phrases, and even expressed his gospel in The Great Tweet: “Love one another as I have loved you.” I suspect his followers would be well advised to RT (ReTweet) everything he said.

  3) Surface

  To say that someone is bubbling in or around the surface of a subject is not to say something nice. This is the greatest critique of twitter: its numbing, crushing banality. Do I really need to know when you finished brushing your teeth this morning? Or what toothpaste you used? Do I really need to see a picture of your kid in the hospital with a fork through his nose with the tweet “What happens when you run holding a fork straight up?”

  But life is not just about the depths. Life is also about the surfaces. I spend large parts of my life with academics who spend their careers exploring the depths. Many seldom come up. You come up for the air of communication and relationship, and when you spend all your time in the depths you find yourself talking only to yourself. People with highly sensitive seismographs for souls, like writers and artists, often rail against the shallowness of living and refuse to compromise and play in the spray. That’s my theory for the high incidence of suicidal behavior if not suicide among artists and poets.

  We need a theology of the surface in tandem with our theology of the depths. As Alice in Wonderland reminds us: “All this digging deep I dislike because if you dig deep all you dig is a pit into which you may fall yourself, or a well at the bottom of which there is nothing but treacle.”1 So far from the surface replacing the depths, in looking for something to tweet about, I find myself paying attention to life in heightened ways. With twitter every day is an awakening to things that never would have registered before. Twitter gives me openings in which to dive into newly discovered depths.

  Life is a bunch of little things. These little things add up, and twitter reminds me to be grateful for the little things and to celebrate the little and the simple. In my list of “50 Reasons Why I Love Twitter,” Reason #33 is “A place where serious people can think serious thoughts about trivial things.” Terry Tempest Williams, in her book Finding Beauty in a Broken World (2008) says: “I used to believe that truth was found only below the surface of things. . . But something changed. . . I am interested now in what my eyes can see, what my fingers can touch.”2  

  A good beer is a subtle symmetry between froth and substance. A good life is a dance of depth and surface.

  One of the highest compliments you can pay me? “Sweet, you do shallow well.”

  4) Global Commons

  This was the reason that initially convinced me to enter the twitterverse. Social media guru Aaron Linne challenged me to think of twitter like a medieval village green. If we were living a millennium ago, our lives would revolve around a village commons. In the course of a day, we would physically pass each other many times and exchange greetings: “How was your lunch?” “Who you working for now?” “What is in your hands?” Wireless technology enables those multiplicity of personal exchanges to take place today, except now it’s with people from around the world. Twitter is the new global commons.

             Like soothsayers reading entrails, I conduct twea-leaf readings. Twitter both connects me to others and to what’s hot, what’s current, what’s the reigning gossip and styles of this new global village. There is nothing sadder than Young Turks turned into Old Geezers. And it can happen overnight. In fact, I like to think of myself as the “pastor” of this twitter parish. In the course of a day’s passings (“postings”) on the village commons, I try to find ways to encourage my “parishioners” (Barnabas blasts, I call them), and be a positive, healing energy in their lives.  

  The question social media poses is one easily answered: are the residents of your global commons reflective of our global community? Or are they only mirrors of yourself? How many people of different races, classes, continents, and religions are part of your social universe?

  5) Social Solitude

  I’m a hermit at heart. Twitter is made for hermits. It enables me to shut myself off without shutting anything or anybody out. It enables me to simultaneously give myself away and never stop hiding. You might call the twitterscape one of social solitude.

  My life is like a barbell: lots of weight on the social end, and lots of weight on solitude end with not much in between other than the handle (read long lines at airports) that connects the socialness with the solitude. Twitter now let’s me do my solitude in society; it let’s me be anonymous in groups.

  These 5 reasons may explain why of all the social media (MySpace, Facebook, etc.), twitterers are the most religious.3 But for me, these are the 5 Ways Twitter Has Changed My Life and made me into a better follower of Jesus.

  © 2009 by Leonard Sweet

Dr. Leonard Sweet is the E. Stanley Jones Professor of Evangelism at Drew University, and a Distinguished Visiting Professor at George Fox University. Voted one of the “50 Most Influential Christians in America,” Dr. Sweet is the author of more than one hundred articles, over six hundred published sermons, and a wide array of books including The Gospel According to Starbucks (WaterBrook) and So Beautiful (David C. Cook).

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Honor the fallen by living today

Today, actually right as I'm typing this, a husband in Georgia is sitting under the sound of a minister conducting the funeral of his wife.  Matt, a friend from college, will not have coffee with Elizabeth tomorrow morning.  All the little things and big things of their life are now changed forever.

The last couple of days I have taken stock of my life.  Admittedly, I have been in shock and at times find myself lost in my thoughts.  I know many of my friends are feeling the same way as well.  At some point, each of us will have to make a choice to wallow in the sorrow and agony of Elizabeth's passing, or to live each day to its full potential.  This moment may come for many today as we say goodbye.  For those who are closer to the family, co-workers, and students, this moment will likely come as time passes.

I can't think of any way to better honor the memory of those who have passed than to live life to the max each moment.  And just so we're clear at this point, I'm defining "the max" as loving your family and friends deeply; serving others and bringing light to another; caring for the world; and doing your best each moment.  These are all common to and subordinate to not serving self but serving God.

I've lost four dear friends in the last six months.  If they could call, write, or twitter from Heaven, I'm sure they'd all say "Forget those petty things you're worried about - go love your family - go serve your God."

So that's what I'm going to do.  Each day that God allows me to open my eyes here on Earth, I will love hard and serve Him.

This note is in honor of my fallen friends and family from March - October 2009: Howard, Dean, Leah, and Elizabeth.

- BP

Why did Elizabeth have to die so young? and 1000 other questions I can't answer:

On Monday's like this, I have so many questions rolling around in my head.  I see so many of my friends on Facebook asking the same thing.  One would think that having Reverend at the beginning of my name and holding a Masters degree from a seminary would mean that I could easily answer this and all other questions of this nature.

I have no answer.

Many of my friends are walking the difficult road of personal tragedy right now.  I can't imagine being in Matt's (Elizabeth's husband) shoes right now as he is waking up to the reality that his wife and soul mate is gone, leaving him to raise their son.  There are others, some near some far, who I know are internally crouched over in pain from personal crisis of many kinds.  I love my friends dearly and to see them in pain causes me to cramp in physical pain as well.

Perspective.

One of my greatest professors of all time, Dr. John Ratledge, used to say, "Do the best you can with what you've been given."  So that's where I have to begin on days like today.

I woke up with my dream girl, my soul mate, my wife tucked safely underneath my arm.  I had muffins and cold cereal with my beautiful children at breakfast.  I drove a paid-off car to a job that takes care of me and my family, where I can fulfill my life's calling.  Even though people close to me are suffering dearly today, I have to hold on to the tremendous gift I've been given. I woke up. Thank you, God.

You too, have been given a tremendous gift. Dead people don't read blog posts. So, besides being alive, what else can you count as a blessing today?

Finally, I had a great conversation with an old friend and mentor, Brian Horne, this morning.  We talked about these blessings and how much it hurts to see others walk through hard times. We also concluded that everyone is somehow broken and on a road to find what mends the brokenness. I posted last night that the truth is found in John 14:6 - that "I [meaning Jesus] am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."

That's where grieving with hope begins.  That is the "go" spot.  That is the front of the line.  Life will not make sense and myself, Billy Graham, Buddha & Confucius combined will not answer the 1000 questions about life we all have.  But we can live with hope.  It takes a little faith. And when I remember the gifts I've been given today, the abdominal cramps loosen and I find myself wanting to encourage you because God has encouraged me today.

Please, hug your loved ones and connect with your Creator.  Take inventory of your life and count the blessings you've been given.  That's where we are take the next step. And remember - I'm here for you.  I'm not a healing man nor do I possess the answers.  But I do have two ears to listen. Don't forget that it still takes a village to make individuals strong.

- BP

Why do we stop at evangelism?

The evangelical church (all included and not singling any one out) is guilty, I believe of stopping at the first part of the Great Commission.  Because we are created with an inner and burning desire to be accepted by something bigger than ourselves, the initial step from carnal to Christian is not as big as we make it out to be.  

The tough part, the part of which we're most afraid is the process of becoming a disciple. This is were James 1:14 comes into play and we begin to realize that in spite of our "goodness," we all have evil desires within. Evil, though, has a way of making itself beautiful and lovely, as seen in the actions of the serpent in Genesis 3.  Our eyes are blinded to the evil that is our life prior to living for Jesus.  This is difficult for us to surrender.  If only we could easily see beyond the enticing evil to the prize that is life in Jesus.

This is where the church falls short.  For those who make it past the initial surrender and enter a mode of maintaining a system of daily confessing sin and repentance, it's hard to remember the past and what it took to get to this point as a disciple.  Thus, walking this road with someone and seeing the evil that has manifest itself in another's life is something that becomes easily avoidable.  Do we want to get them in the door (evangelize)? Yes.  Do we want to walk with someone as they begin the painful process of dealing with the evil inside (make disciples)? Not always.

It's dirty work.  Every disciple has a mandate from our Lord to roll up our sleeves and help someone else walk the road of becoming a disciple. The question we must ask of ourselves is, "Am I merely a greeter at the gates of God's Kingdom, or am I willing to be an usher who walks with another during the good and bad as they find their place in God's Kingdom."

- BP